1. Resolve to be generous with your time and money, but never ever give to charity.
You can practically hear the sinews of humanity ripping apart when we think of people as charity cases. We scroll or stroll by and throw money at them.
If it weren’t for the most microscopic twist of genetics or timing, you might be the one paralyzed from the neck down, or the person sleeping in the doorway.
I know it’s terrifying, but always give to others knowing we’re all in the same lifeboat.
2. Whether you can give time and money or not, be generous with your spirit. For New Year’s, give up pity.
I do not mean sympathy or empathy. I mean pity.
I have only been pitied a few times, but ouch did it sting. I’ve written about having breast cancer, and I’ve had people pity me. There is just nothing…
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